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		<title>By: Eshu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eshu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 07:56:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yunshui,

You&#039;re right it is sad. I don&#039;t think it disproves Christianity (although I think several other things do), but it certainly nerfs the &quot;Christians are always happier, better people.&quot; Psychologists tell us that self-respect is a basic requirement for being a happy well-adjusted person who can get along in the world. (We also know some examples from the other end of the Christian morality spectrum to Tim who actually &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; dicks). 

No &quot;Everyone&#039;s evil&quot; doesn&#039;t add up to me. Some people are nice, some aren&#039;t. I&#039;m not saying everyone is perfect, many are misguided, some with tragic consequences for humanity. However, I seriously doubt that anyone gets out of bed and wonders, &quot;How can I make the world a &lt;em&gt;worse&lt;/em&gt; place today?&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yunshui,</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right it is sad. I don&#8217;t think it disproves Christianity (although I think several other things do), but it certainly nerfs the &#8220;Christians are always happier, better people.&#8221; Psychologists tell us that self-respect is a basic requirement for being a happy well-adjusted person who can get along in the world. (We also know some examples from the other end of the Christian morality spectrum to Tim who actually <em>are</em> dicks). </p>
<p>No &#8220;Everyone&#8217;s evil&#8221; doesn&#8217;t add up to me. Some people are nice, some aren&#8217;t. I&#8217;m not saying everyone is perfect, many are misguided, some with tragic consequences for humanity. However, I seriously doubt that anyone gets out of bed and wonders, &#8220;How can I make the world a <em>worse</em> place today?&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: yunshui</title>
		<link>http://bridgingschisms.org/2009/01/one-mans-experience-of-the-alpha-course/comment-page-1/#comment-375</link>
		<dc:creator>yunshui</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 16:18:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With apologies to Eshu for raisng the &quot;dick&quot; issue again (sooner or later my porn-filter is going to block this thread), I&#039;d like to say that Tim&#039;s earlier comment is one of the saddest things I&#039;ve seen in quite some time, as well as being an excellent argument against religion in general and Christianity in particular.

&lt;blockquote&gt;&quot;The main thing I want to say. God isn’t a dick. I’m the dick.&quot;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Think about that for a moment. Tim&#039;s religion basically requires him to feel bad about himself, despondent even, just so that he can let his god off the hook. One of the (many!) reasons I left Christianity was because of the fundamental idea that humans are flawed, sinful, grovelling little creatures who simply aren&#039;t worthy of their invisible sky-daddy. To which I say, bullshit! We are an amazing species, and every one of us should feel proud to be part of the human race (even you, Tim. Trust me, you&#039;re not a dick).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With apologies to Eshu for raisng the &#8220;dick&#8221; issue again (sooner or later my porn-filter is going to block this thread), I&#8217;d like to say that Tim&#8217;s earlier comment is one of the saddest things I&#8217;ve seen in quite some time, as well as being an excellent argument against religion in general and Christianity in particular.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The main thing I want to say. God isn’t a dick. I’m the dick.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Think about that for a moment. Tim&#8217;s religion basically requires him to feel bad about himself, despondent even, just so that he can let his god off the hook. One of the (many!) reasons I left Christianity was because of the fundamental idea that humans are flawed, sinful, grovelling little creatures who simply aren&#8217;t worthy of their invisible sky-daddy. To which I say, bullshit! We are an amazing species, and every one of us should feel proud to be part of the human race (even you, Tim. Trust me, you&#8217;re not a dick).</p>
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		<title>By: Eshu</title>
		<link>http://bridgingschisms.org/2009/01/one-mans-experience-of-the-alpha-course/comment-page-1/#comment-374</link>
		<dc:creator>Eshu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 23:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tim,

I totally understand you wanting to take some time over this and I look forward to your blog post answering my and my commenters&#039; questions. Likewise I don&#039;t have as much time to read and write (never mind play sport) as I&#039;d like. You&#039;re welcome to link to your blog post from here, in fact trackbacks or pingbacks (or something) ought to do automagically that if you link to me. I&#039;d certainly see it as relevant and not shameless self-promotion.

Sorry, I didn&#039;t mean to imply that discussion was off limits. It&#039;s not. Perhaps my wording was heavy-handed. You can fling insults at people who aren&#039;t commenting on this blog as much as you like. When God starts commenting then PhillyChief&#039;s insult would be contrary to the policy! I&#039;m not going to ban anyone for insulting themselves, but I am concerned about your apparent lack of self-respect. If this is partly as a result of your belief that human beings are all worthless (forgive me if I&#039;m misunderstanding), then I&#039;m particularly worried by it.

Well, it sounds like you&#039;re better read than me!

I&#039;ll keep an eye out for your post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tim,</p>
<p>I totally understand you wanting to take some time over this and I look forward to your blog post answering my and my commenters&#8217; questions. Likewise I don&#8217;t have as much time to read and write (never mind play sport) as I&#8217;d like. You&#8217;re welcome to link to your blog post from here, in fact trackbacks or pingbacks (or something) ought to do automagically that if you link to me. I&#8217;d certainly see it as relevant and not shameless self-promotion.</p>
<p>Sorry, I didn&#8217;t mean to imply that discussion was off limits. It&#8217;s not. Perhaps my wording was heavy-handed. You can fling insults at people who aren&#8217;t commenting on this blog as much as you like. When God starts commenting then PhillyChief&#8217;s insult would be contrary to the policy! I&#8217;m not going to ban anyone for insulting themselves, but I am concerned about your apparent lack of self-respect. If this is partly as a result of your belief that human beings are all worthless (forgive me if I&#8217;m misunderstanding), then I&#8217;m particularly worried by it.</p>
<p>Well, it sounds like you&#8217;re better read than me!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep an eye out for your post.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Wilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 20:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Guys,

You have raised some massive issues and I&#039;m thinking that just blasting off the first ideas that come into my head will not do them justice.

If I&#039;m write the main two objections are these:

If God were real...
1) His followers would display him better.
2) He would not create an unfair law nor eternal punishment.
3) He would surely save everyone, which he clearly hasn&#039;t done. 

The first one, because of Eshu&#039;s fair rule, we can&#039;t discuss here. The other two, whilst I have opinions on, I am almost certain I won&#039;t do your questions justice in a momentary response. I really want to wrestle with them. 

So if you don&#039;t mind (in a way that is hopefully as non self-promoting as possible) I&#039;ll take Eshu&#039;s advice and blog my thoughts in the not so distant future. This means I can hopefully take the time to respond to you better and also that Eshu&#039;s blog isn&#039;t cluttered with my massive comments. If you want me to contact you when I&#039;ve posted them I will do. However, I don&#039;t want to use the comments section of Esh&#039;s blog as some sort of promotional tool, so I won&#039;t post here when I have responded.

As for other issues, Chaplain, I never learned that mantra. Is it a US thing? I&#039;m British you see. However, your evidence is fair, Christianity hardly has a great track record for dealing with people.

Eshu, I have looked into both Buddhism and Islam (as well as Hinduism, Judaism and Sikhism) during my University years. Islam I know a lot about because I have a lot of Muslim friends. However, I feel Islam is fundamentally flawed, as it puts itself up to be the continuation of Judaism and Christianity, despite continuing not of it&#039;s character. 

Buddhism I know much less on (basically we chose two religions to study for the exams and I chose Judaism and Hinduism). My main objection is that it says the solution is inside of me which just seems contrary to everything I see in myself. Nevertheless, I willingly admit that I don&#039;t know enough to comment fully. I have spent more time on Islam, Judaism, Liberal Christianity and Atheism, for the sole reason that I don&#039;t know many Buddhists - not a particularly valid reason I know.

In terms of the passage from Luke, I do think it&#039;s function is exactly what you say, but Jesus&#039; punchline is &quot;unless you repent, you will all likewise perish&quot;. The point is that looking at suffering we see a picture of our perishing to come, so we must repent.

If there are any other things I&#039;ve overlooked, please say. I&#039;m sorry working life means much less time to do these things than I&#039;d like.

Thanks once more for your hospitality and kindness
Tim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guys,</p>
<p>You have raised some massive issues and I&#8217;m thinking that just blasting off the first ideas that come into my head will not do them justice.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;m write the main two objections are these:</p>
<p>If God were real&#8230;<br />
1) His followers would display him better.<br />
2) He would not create an unfair law nor eternal punishment.<br />
3) He would surely save everyone, which he clearly hasn&#8217;t done. </p>
<p>The first one, because of Eshu&#8217;s fair rule, we can&#8217;t discuss here. The other two, whilst I have opinions on, I am almost certain I won&#8217;t do your questions justice in a momentary response. I really want to wrestle with them. </p>
<p>So if you don&#8217;t mind (in a way that is hopefully as non self-promoting as possible) I&#8217;ll take Eshu&#8217;s advice and blog my thoughts in the not so distant future. This means I can hopefully take the time to respond to you better and also that Eshu&#8217;s blog isn&#8217;t cluttered with my massive comments. If you want me to contact you when I&#8217;ve posted them I will do. However, I don&#8217;t want to use the comments section of Esh&#8217;s blog as some sort of promotional tool, so I won&#8217;t post here when I have responded.</p>
<p>As for other issues, Chaplain, I never learned that mantra. Is it a US thing? I&#8217;m British you see. However, your evidence is fair, Christianity hardly has a great track record for dealing with people.</p>
<p>Eshu, I have looked into both Buddhism and Islam (as well as Hinduism, Judaism and Sikhism) during my University years. Islam I know a lot about because I have a lot of Muslim friends. However, I feel Islam is fundamentally flawed, as it puts itself up to be the continuation of Judaism and Christianity, despite continuing not of it&#8217;s character. </p>
<p>Buddhism I know much less on (basically we chose two religions to study for the exams and I chose Judaism and Hinduism). My main objection is that it says the solution is inside of me which just seems contrary to everything I see in myself. Nevertheless, I willingly admit that I don&#8217;t know enough to comment fully. I have spent more time on Islam, Judaism, Liberal Christianity and Atheism, for the sole reason that I don&#8217;t know many Buddhists &#8211; not a particularly valid reason I know.</p>
<p>In terms of the passage from Luke, I do think it&#8217;s function is exactly what you say, but Jesus&#8217; punchline is &#8220;unless you repent, you will all likewise perish&#8221;. The point is that looking at suffering we see a picture of our perishing to come, so we must repent.</p>
<p>If there are any other things I&#8217;ve overlooked, please say. I&#8217;m sorry working life means much less time to do these things than I&#8217;d like.</p>
<p>Thanks once more for your hospitality and kindness<br />
Tim</p>
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		<title>By: Eshu</title>
		<link>http://bridgingschisms.org/2009/01/one-mans-experience-of-the-alpha-course/comment-page-1/#comment-372</link>
		<dc:creator>Eshu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 21:31:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As an aside, I&#039;d prefer it if no one got described as dicks. PhillyChief was making a good point in his typical forthright style. As he&#039;s not actually insulting one of the commenters, he doesn&#039;t fall foul of the &quot;no ad hominems&quot; rule. Tim, when you insult yourself... erm, I really didn&#039;t expect this situation to come up! Anyway, I don&#039;t think anyone needs to apologise.

I guess PhillyChief sees the God you describe as unreasonable and immoral, as &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/j/julesrenar161682.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Jules Renard said&lt;/a&gt;, &quot;I don&#039;t know if God exists, but it would be better for His reputation if He didn&#039;t.&quot;

Tim, I know PhillyChief has spent a lot of time reading/writing about Christianity. So if your arguments fail to convince him, consider that it may not be your presentation that is at fault.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an aside, I&#8217;d prefer it if no one got described as dicks. PhillyChief was making a good point in his typical forthright style. As he&#8217;s not actually insulting one of the commenters, he doesn&#8217;t fall foul of the &#8220;no ad hominems&#8221; rule. Tim, when you insult yourself&#8230; erm, I really didn&#8217;t expect this situation to come up! Anyway, I don&#8217;t think anyone needs to apologise.</p>
<p>I guess PhillyChief sees the God you describe as unreasonable and immoral, as <a href="http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/j/julesrenar161682.html" rel="nofollow">Jules Renard said</a>, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know if God exists, but it would be better for His reputation if He didn&#8217;t.&#8221;</p>
<p>Tim, I know PhillyChief has spent a lot of time reading/writing about Christianity. So if your arguments fail to convince him, consider that it may not be your presentation that is at fault.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Wilson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 20:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow guys thanks for responding so quick. I&#039;ll try and read and respond but I want to just say something to PhillyChief first

Firstly, on the horse before the cart thing...sorry! And on knowing atheists etc. I think I explained that above.

The main thing I want to say. God isn&#039;t a dick. I&#039;m the dick.

I make non-Christian feel like they&#039;re worse than me, when that&#039;s not what it&#039;s about at all.
I look out for myself above everyone else, and totally miss their needs.
I use words to cut down and not build up.
I am the dick not God.

God isn&#039;t like that. God offers a rescue plan. But he has to deal with the problem. If he let us into heaven as is, then heaven would be just the same as Earth. He has to save people&#039;s souls and change them so they can stop being dicks. Yet some will refuse to go and that&#039;s that.

Once more I apologise for the way it gets across to you guys often. The Bible is made to show God as loving, whether you believe it was written by men or God you&#039;ve got to see that is the point it&#039;s trying to make. It&#039;s not because I&#039;m scared of God the giant bully in the sky I go to him. It&#039;s because I see all the problems I&#039;m causing in the world around me and long for a day when I can actually do something right for once.

That&#039;s my hope, that&#039;s what I&#039;m talking about. Sin is a part of that, because sin is seeing that I am the one ruining this earth not anyone else. But it&#039;s about God saving us from that.

I know you don&#039;t believe it, but I do hope that this in some way addresses your point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow guys thanks for responding so quick. I&#8217;ll try and read and respond but I want to just say something to PhillyChief first</p>
<p>Firstly, on the horse before the cart thing&#8230;sorry! And on knowing atheists etc. I think I explained that above.</p>
<p>The main thing I want to say. God isn&#8217;t a dick. I&#8217;m the dick.</p>
<p>I make non-Christian feel like they&#8217;re worse than me, when that&#8217;s not what it&#8217;s about at all.<br />
I look out for myself above everyone else, and totally miss their needs.<br />
I use words to cut down and not build up.<br />
I am the dick not God.</p>
<p>God isn&#8217;t like that. God offers a rescue plan. But he has to deal with the problem. If he let us into heaven as is, then heaven would be just the same as Earth. He has to save people&#8217;s souls and change them so they can stop being dicks. Yet some will refuse to go and that&#8217;s that.</p>
<p>Once more I apologise for the way it gets across to you guys often. The Bible is made to show God as loving, whether you believe it was written by men or God you&#8217;ve got to see that is the point it&#8217;s trying to make. It&#8217;s not because I&#8217;m scared of God the giant bully in the sky I go to him. It&#8217;s because I see all the problems I&#8217;m causing in the world around me and long for a day when I can actually do something right for once.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s my hope, that&#8217;s what I&#8217;m talking about. Sin is a part of that, because sin is seeing that I am the one ruining this earth not anyone else. But it&#8217;s about God saving us from that.</p>
<p>I know you don&#8217;t believe it, but I do hope that this in some way addresses your point.</p>
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		<title>By: the chaplain</title>
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		<dc:creator>the chaplain</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 19:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim:

Thanks for your kind response.

With regard to your suggestion that the teachings of Jesus and Paul are worth a look, I&#039;ll just say that I studied them for years and do not share your opinion of them.

I also don&#039;t share your view that the Catholic Church was not honestly Christian, nor do I accept that the responsibility for the ugly parts of Christian Church history lies solely or even primarily with the Catholic Church. The Catholic and Orthodox brands of Christianity were the leading branches for hundreds of years. Whether or not you like it, they were God&#039;s sole means of spreading his message for several centuries (I won&#039;t discuss Coptics, Nestorians, etc., here). The Protestant branch of Christianity (which is the tradition of my heritage) is the abode of the most recent Christian upstarts. 

If you think that the bulk of the spread of Christianity has been through peaceful means, it appears to me that you&#039;re overlooking a lot of history. The Post-Reformation Catholic/Protestant religious wars of the early modern era were brutal. The settling of the so-called New World, in which Christians often played key roles (I&#039;m sure you learned the manta, &lt;em&gt;God, Glory &amp; God&lt;/em&gt; in high school), was brutal as often as not. The European Imperialism of the 19th century may have been less bloody than previous conquests, but Christianity, along with western social and economic mores, was nonetheless forced on the inhabitants of interior Africa, the Indian sub-continent and the Far East.  

Your contention that &lt;em&gt;&quot;Any failures...are lamentable but do not mean that Christianity is false&quot;&lt;/em&gt; has some difficulties. You see, Christianity preaches that God&#039;s Holy Spirit transforms the lives of God&#039;s followers. Now, I know that no one is perfect and that individuals, and even institutions, frequently fall short of their ideals. Still, the fact is that Christian lives usually don&#039;t look any more or less moral, or divinely guided, than non-Christian lives. Sad to say, they often look worse. It seems to me, then, that the incredibly persistent failure of Christians to be distinguishable from non-Christians should prompt serious examination of the entire notion that God can be present in the lives of his people. That teaching, at the very least, seems to be rendered false by the evidence of Christianity in action. As for other teachings of Christianity, I think you would agree with me that they should be examined on their own merit, irrespective of the behavior of believers.

The claim that 1/3 of the world&#039;s population claims Christianity can be substantiated at many web sites, such as &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.religioustolerance.org/worldrel.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this one.&lt;/a&gt; I won&#039;t get into your claim that many of these Christians are &quot;nominal&quot; and therefore probably shouldn&#039;t be included in that total, as I have no interest in splitting hairs over what distinguishes True Christian Faith from False Christian Faith. I take serious issue with your claim that 2/3 of the world&#039;s people don&#039;t know God because they don&#039;t want to do so. The fact that there are so many religions in the world, and the fact that most of the people in the world adhere to some religion, are evidence that most people do seek to know a deity. I believe this quest is the result of a misfiring of some trait that was evolutionarily useful at one time, in combination with the cultural and social transmission of a belief-meme over millenia. I recognize that you probably won&#039;t share these beliefs or anything like them. 

Finally, I want to speak on behalf of the many genuinely good people I know who are Christians. They are not perfect people, but the vast majority of them are good people who are sincerely trying to live out their faiths to the best of their understanding. I disagree with their beliefs, but I respect them personally. There is nothing in their lives that turned me away from Christianity. Therefore, your apology on their behalf, even though offered sincerely, is completely unwarranted. Consequently, I do not accept it. I hope you&#039;ll understand my reasoning on this matter.

As you did before me, I&#039;ll note that my comment is not intended to offend hyou, but simply to engage in the dialog here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim:</p>
<p>Thanks for your kind response.</p>
<p>With regard to your suggestion that the teachings of Jesus and Paul are worth a look, I&#8217;ll just say that I studied them for years and do not share your opinion of them.</p>
<p>I also don&#8217;t share your view that the Catholic Church was not honestly Christian, nor do I accept that the responsibility for the ugly parts of Christian Church history lies solely or even primarily with the Catholic Church. The Catholic and Orthodox brands of Christianity were the leading branches for hundreds of years. Whether or not you like it, they were God&#8217;s sole means of spreading his message for several centuries (I won&#8217;t discuss Coptics, Nestorians, etc., here). The Protestant branch of Christianity (which is the tradition of my heritage) is the abode of the most recent Christian upstarts. </p>
<p>If you think that the bulk of the spread of Christianity has been through peaceful means, it appears to me that you&#8217;re overlooking a lot of history. The Post-Reformation Catholic/Protestant religious wars of the early modern era were brutal. The settling of the so-called New World, in which Christians often played key roles (I&#8217;m sure you learned the manta, <em>God, Glory &amp; God</em> in high school), was brutal as often as not. The European Imperialism of the 19th century may have been less bloody than previous conquests, but Christianity, along with western social and economic mores, was nonetheless forced on the inhabitants of interior Africa, the Indian sub-continent and the Far East.  </p>
<p>Your contention that <em>&#8220;Any failures&#8230;are lamentable but do not mean that Christianity is false&#8221;</em> has some difficulties. You see, Christianity preaches that God&#8217;s Holy Spirit transforms the lives of God&#8217;s followers. Now, I know that no one is perfect and that individuals, and even institutions, frequently fall short of their ideals. Still, the fact is that Christian lives usually don&#8217;t look any more or less moral, or divinely guided, than non-Christian lives. Sad to say, they often look worse. It seems to me, then, that the incredibly persistent failure of Christians to be distinguishable from non-Christians should prompt serious examination of the entire notion that God can be present in the lives of his people. That teaching, at the very least, seems to be rendered false by the evidence of Christianity in action. As for other teachings of Christianity, I think you would agree with me that they should be examined on their own merit, irrespective of the behavior of believers.</p>
<p>The claim that 1/3 of the world&#8217;s population claims Christianity can be substantiated at many web sites, such as <a href="http://www.religioustolerance.org/worldrel.htm" rel="nofollow">this one.</a> I won&#8217;t get into your claim that many of these Christians are &#8220;nominal&#8221; and therefore probably shouldn&#8217;t be included in that total, as I have no interest in splitting hairs over what distinguishes True Christian Faith from False Christian Faith. I take serious issue with your claim that 2/3 of the world&#8217;s people don&#8217;t know God because they don&#8217;t want to do so. The fact that there are so many religions in the world, and the fact that most of the people in the world adhere to some religion, are evidence that most people do seek to know a deity. I believe this quest is the result of a misfiring of some trait that was evolutionarily useful at one time, in combination with the cultural and social transmission of a belief-meme over millenia. I recognize that you probably won&#8217;t share these beliefs or anything like them. </p>
<p>Finally, I want to speak on behalf of the many genuinely good people I know who are Christians. They are not perfect people, but the vast majority of them are good people who are sincerely trying to live out their faiths to the best of their understanding. I disagree with their beliefs, but I respect them personally. There is nothing in their lives that turned me away from Christianity. Therefore, your apology on their behalf, even though offered sincerely, is completely unwarranted. Consequently, I do not accept it. I hope you&#8217;ll understand my reasoning on this matter.</p>
<p>As you did before me, I&#8217;ll note that my comment is not intended to offend hyou, but simply to engage in the dialog here.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Eshu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 18:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim,

Thanks for your words of conciliation. I can&#039;t speak for the chaplain, but I wasn&#039;t particularly offended, although I did roll my eyes!

I should point out that many of my visitors (especially those from heavily religious parts of the world) have had unpleasant experiences with Christians and have some &lt;a href=&quot;http://friendlyatheist.com/2007/10/15/an-angry-atheist-for-the-right-reasons/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;justification for being angry&lt;/a&gt; and edgy about it.

Please can we &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; get into a debate over whether they&#039;re &quot;real&quot; Christians and whether or not you are therefore responsible for their behaviour? If anyone wants to discuss the first, please post on your own blog. As for the second, I don&#039;t think anyone should be held responsible for the actions of someone else, particularly if they&#039;ve never met them.

Tim, sorry I took ages and crossed replies with you. I think some of your recent points were discussed in my last (monster) comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim,</p>
<p>Thanks for your words of conciliation. I can&#8217;t speak for the chaplain, but I wasn&#8217;t particularly offended, although I did roll my eyes!</p>
<p>I should point out that many of my visitors (especially those from heavily religious parts of the world) have had unpleasant experiences with Christians and have some <a href="http://friendlyatheist.com/2007/10/15/an-angry-atheist-for-the-right-reasons/" rel="nofollow">justification for being angry</a> and edgy about it.</p>
<p>Please can we <em>not</em> get into a debate over whether they&#8217;re &#8220;real&#8221; Christians and whether or not you are therefore responsible for their behaviour? If anyone wants to discuss the first, please post on your own blog. As for the second, I don&#8217;t think anyone should be held responsible for the actions of someone else, particularly if they&#8217;ve never met them.</p>
<p>Tim, sorry I took ages and crossed replies with you. I think some of your recent points were discussed in my last (monster) comment.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Eshu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 17:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tim,
&lt;blockquote&gt;Hmm... I never got sent the comments feed.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Sorry, I guess subscribe to comments is not working. I&#039;ve disabled it for now while I check it out.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Some people, for example, are atheists so they can do what they want.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Maybe some have said that. But if they thought for a minute that they were wrong and going to suffer for it you can bet they&#039;d stop and rethink. Many do and remain atheists as the comments above show. We might suggest that some people are Christians because they&#039;re scared and want to live forever or because they don&#039;t want to have to think for themselves. When I&#039;ve asked why they believe, I&#039;ve heard several Christians reply &quot;Because I find it comforting&quot;. To me, that isn&#039;t a justification for a belief, it&#039;s admitting to wishful thinking. If I&#039;d asked, &quot;Why do you think climate change isn&#039;t happening?&quot; and someone responded, &quot;Because it&#039;s more comforting to think the world will always be a safe place to live.&quot; I&#039;d say they were dodging the issue.

I&#039;m in no doubt that wishful thinking plays a part in why many of us are drawn to certain beliefs. I&#039;ve &lt;a href=&quot;http://bridgingschisms.org/2008/06/desirability-bias/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;noticed it in myself&lt;/a&gt; sometimes. However, I don&#039;t think it is a valid justification for a belief.

&lt;blockquote&gt;My view of suffering is prety well exemplified in Luke 13:1-5. Basically Jesus’ argument there is suffering is a warning of the future judgement to come.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Hmm, I think &lt;a href=&quot;http://tinyurl.com/87jr65/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Luke 13:1-5&lt;/a&gt; is more saying Earthly suffering is not a &quot;karma-like&quot; punishment for Earthly sins. I don&#039;t think it&#039;s saying, &quot;This punishment is a warning intended to make you come to God&quot;. If it really meant that it could have been much clearer.

&lt;blockquote&gt;So we have suffering which is meant to sting so much we go “I need to get out of this and return to God”.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Actually, I think Earthly suffering as a method of encouraging people towards a god (let alone your particular God) has been a notable failure. If anything I&#039;d say it drives people away from religion. I can&#039;t imagine God thinking, &quot;Hmm, I&#039;ll give this kid spina bifida, just to show them I&#039;m serious about this whole hell thing&quot;. Christian apologist William Lane Craig called the problem of evil &quot;atheism&#039;s killer argument&quot;.

It&#039;s not as if the bad things which happen in the world have &quot;Jesus&quot; written all over them, anymore than a sunset or flower has. It&#039;s not as if Australian Aboriginal people living in the 4th century saw a beautiful sunset over &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Uluru_(Helicopter_view)-crop.jpg&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;uluru&lt;/a&gt; and thought &quot;I trust in Jesus and I believe the Bible is the perfect revelation&quot;. No, if people become Christians it&#039;s because other human beings, or books written by other human beings have found their way to them. Just like, well, just like every other religion in history.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Each of us, you and me alike, have rejected God and are deserving of punishment.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Only if you create some special Christian definition of &quot;rejected&quot; which includes &lt;em&gt;&quot;ignoring things you&#039;ve never heard of&quot;&lt;/em&gt;. Even for those of us who do hear about Jesus, the claims made about him seem no more likely to be true than those of other religions. Even if Jesus/God/Holy Spirit showed them/himself unambiguously to every person and gave them the choice I don&#039;t think it would be fair to hold individuals infinitely culpable for a simple choice. That is not justice. Well it could be if you invent some special definition of &quot;justice&quot; for Christianity. But then if you can invent new definitions especially for your religion then you&#039;re moving the goalposts and we might as well give up trying to understand it. As the chaplain and PhillyChief indicated, it&#039;s still monstrously unjust by any reasonable standard.

&lt;blockquote&gt;In the same way, elsewhere we learn, the kindness of God is to lead us to repentance. When we see the beauty of a sunrise, look at the vastness of the universe, or feel the love of a friend or lover we should go “Man God created this, I should really get to know more about him”.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Yes you see it that way because you&#039;ve grown up in a Christian culture. What you see is a projection of you and your culture, not of anything obvious and external.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Intellectual curiosity is surely piped to see if he’s true or not. (to a lesser extent the same could be said for Buddha and Mohammed but not for Quetzalcoatl.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
I did used to be a Christian and I have spent a fair bit of time studying Christianity, although probably not as much as you. Yes the Bible has some good stories and I&#039;m a big fan of the good Samaritan, Soloman&#039;s(?) &quot;one divides and the other chooses&quot;. But there&#039;s also a lot that is immoral, nonsensical, anachronistic and just plain weird. Sure, if it is true, I&#039;d definitely like to know, but I&#039;ve not yet found any convincing arguments for any religion.

Just out of interest, Tim, have you studied Buddhism and Islam much?

&lt;blockquote&gt;You’d assume if God was behind someone then their ministry would have some success).&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Well actually I think we&#039;d expect perfect success. Plus, in many ways that would be more fair. If you&#039;re going to punish people for not loving you, at least let them &lt;em&gt;all&lt;/em&gt; know you exist. As the chaplain pointed out, much of the spread of Christianity probably has more to do with Paul and the Roman Empire who conquered a lot of countries which then went on to have empires of their own a few centuries later, taking their favourite religion with them. That could have been the hand of God, but it&#039;s far from conclusive. There&#039;s nothing obviously supernatural about it.

In any case, as a means of getting your divine message out to humanity, it&#039;s not exactly ideal, is it? If the exact same religion had emerged independently in different parts of the world, all with the exact same teachings, then that would look like divine intervention. If explorers had arrived on a previously unknown pacific island with the intention of converting the inhabitants, only to find them already quoting Jesus, &lt;em&gt;then&lt;/em&gt; you&#039;d be on to something.

&lt;blockquote&gt;What makes you want to look into it my friend?&lt;/blockquote&gt;
The main reason is that I&#039;m curious to understand why people believe things which seem so illogical to me. Maybe it&#039;s psychological voyeurism?! Sometimes I wonder if some people even &lt;em&gt;prefer&lt;/em&gt; to believe things which make no sense, as if it&#039;s &lt;em&gt;more&lt;/em&gt; of an achievement!

Secondary, I do believe that false beliefs can and do lead to bad decisions. &lt;a href=&quot;http://bridgingschisms.org/2008/08/when-woo-works/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Not always&lt;/a&gt;, but often.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Sorry for the spelling mistakes. Thanks for bearing with this long comment!&lt;/blockquote&gt;
I&#039;d be a hypocrite if I complained about either of those things! You&#039;re always welcome here, Tim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tim,</p>
<blockquote><p>Hmm&#8230; I never got sent the comments feed.</p></blockquote>
<p>Sorry, I guess subscribe to comments is not working. I&#8217;ve disabled it for now while I check it out.</p>
<blockquote><p>Some people, for example, are atheists so they can do what they want.</p></blockquote>
<p>Maybe some have said that. But if they thought for a minute that they were wrong and going to suffer for it you can bet they&#8217;d stop and rethink. Many do and remain atheists as the comments above show. We might suggest that some people are Christians because they&#8217;re scared and want to live forever or because they don&#8217;t want to have to think for themselves. When I&#8217;ve asked why they believe, I&#8217;ve heard several Christians reply &#8220;Because I find it comforting&#8221;. To me, that isn&#8217;t a justification for a belief, it&#8217;s admitting to wishful thinking. If I&#8217;d asked, &#8220;Why do you think climate change isn&#8217;t happening?&#8221; and someone responded, &#8220;Because it&#8217;s more comforting to think the world will always be a safe place to live.&#8221; I&#8217;d say they were dodging the issue.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m in no doubt that wishful thinking plays a part in why many of us are drawn to certain beliefs. I&#8217;ve <a href="http://bridgingschisms.org/2008/06/desirability-bias/" rel="nofollow">noticed it in myself</a> sometimes. However, I don&#8217;t think it is a valid justification for a belief.</p>
<blockquote><p>My view of suffering is prety well exemplified in Luke 13:1-5. Basically Jesus’ argument there is suffering is a warning of the future judgement to come.</p></blockquote>
<p>Hmm, I think <a href="http://tinyurl.com/87jr65/" rel="nofollow">Luke 13:1-5</a> is more saying Earthly suffering is not a &#8220;karma-like&#8221; punishment for Earthly sins. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s saying, &#8220;This punishment is a warning intended to make you come to God&#8221;. If it really meant that it could have been much clearer.</p>
<blockquote><p>So we have suffering which is meant to sting so much we go “I need to get out of this and return to God”.</p></blockquote>
<p>Actually, I think Earthly suffering as a method of encouraging people towards a god (let alone your particular God) has been a notable failure. If anything I&#8217;d say it drives people away from religion. I can&#8217;t imagine God thinking, &#8220;Hmm, I&#8217;ll give this kid spina bifida, just to show them I&#8217;m serious about this whole hell thing&#8221;. Christian apologist William Lane Craig called the problem of evil &#8220;atheism&#8217;s killer argument&#8221;.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not as if the bad things which happen in the world have &#8220;Jesus&#8221; written all over them, anymore than a sunset or flower has. It&#8217;s not as if Australian Aboriginal people living in the 4th century saw a beautiful sunset over <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Uluru_(Helicopter_view)-crop.jpg" rel="nofollow">uluru</a> and thought &#8220;I trust in Jesus and I believe the Bible is the perfect revelation&#8221;. No, if people become Christians it&#8217;s because other human beings, or books written by other human beings have found their way to them. Just like, well, just like every other religion in history.</p>
<blockquote><p>Each of us, you and me alike, have rejected God and are deserving of punishment.</p></blockquote>
<p>Only if you create some special Christian definition of &#8220;rejected&#8221; which includes <em>&#8220;ignoring things you&#8217;ve never heard of&#8221;</em>. Even for those of us who do hear about Jesus, the claims made about him seem no more likely to be true than those of other religions. Even if Jesus/God/Holy Spirit showed them/himself unambiguously to every person and gave them the choice I don&#8217;t think it would be fair to hold individuals infinitely culpable for a simple choice. That is not justice. Well it could be if you invent some special definition of &#8220;justice&#8221; for Christianity. But then if you can invent new definitions especially for your religion then you&#8217;re moving the goalposts and we might as well give up trying to understand it. As the chaplain and PhillyChief indicated, it&#8217;s still monstrously unjust by any reasonable standard.</p>
<blockquote><p>In the same way, elsewhere we learn, the kindness of God is to lead us to repentance. When we see the beauty of a sunrise, look at the vastness of the universe, or feel the love of a friend or lover we should go “Man God created this, I should really get to know more about him”.</p></blockquote>
<p>Yes you see it that way because you&#8217;ve grown up in a Christian culture. What you see is a projection of you and your culture, not of anything obvious and external.</p>
<blockquote><p>Intellectual curiosity is surely piped to see if he’s true or not. (to a lesser extent the same could be said for Buddha and Mohammed but not for Quetzalcoatl.</p></blockquote>
<p>I did used to be a Christian and I have spent a fair bit of time studying Christianity, although probably not as much as you. Yes the Bible has some good stories and I&#8217;m a big fan of the good Samaritan, Soloman&#8217;s(?) &#8220;one divides and the other chooses&#8221;. But there&#8217;s also a lot that is immoral, nonsensical, anachronistic and just plain weird. Sure, if it is true, I&#8217;d definitely like to know, but I&#8217;ve not yet found any convincing arguments for any religion.</p>
<p>Just out of interest, Tim, have you studied Buddhism and Islam much?</p>
<blockquote><p>You’d assume if God was behind someone then their ministry would have some success).</p></blockquote>
<p>Well actually I think we&#8217;d expect perfect success. Plus, in many ways that would be more fair. If you&#8217;re going to punish people for not loving you, at least let them <em>all</em> know you exist. As the chaplain pointed out, much of the spread of Christianity probably has more to do with Paul and the Roman Empire who conquered a lot of countries which then went on to have empires of their own a few centuries later, taking their favourite religion with them. That could have been the hand of God, but it&#8217;s far from conclusive. There&#8217;s nothing obviously supernatural about it.</p>
<p>In any case, as a means of getting your divine message out to humanity, it&#8217;s not exactly ideal, is it? If the exact same religion had emerged independently in different parts of the world, all with the exact same teachings, then that would look like divine intervention. If explorers had arrived on a previously unknown pacific island with the intention of converting the inhabitants, only to find them already quoting Jesus, <em>then</em> you&#8217;d be on to something.</p>
<blockquote><p>What makes you want to look into it my friend?</p></blockquote>
<p>The main reason is that I&#8217;m curious to understand why people believe things which seem so illogical to me. Maybe it&#8217;s psychological voyeurism?! Sometimes I wonder if some people even <em>prefer</em> to believe things which make no sense, as if it&#8217;s <em>more</em> of an achievement!</p>
<p>Secondary, I do believe that false beliefs can and do lead to bad decisions. <a href="http://bridgingschisms.org/2008/08/when-woo-works/" rel="nofollow">Not always</a>, but often.</p>
<blockquote><p>Sorry for the spelling mistakes. Thanks for bearing with this long comment!</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;d be a hypocrite if I complained about either of those things! You&#8217;re always welcome here, Tim.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 17:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thechaplin

Sorry if I offended by using those words. What I meant was so they can be the ones to rule their own lives. Now that doesn&#039;t mean they&#039;re complete hedonists, they won&#039;t just go out and murder. But it means there are certain things they want to do. By saying some, I meant to say it wasn&#039;t all. Some can&#039;t believe because of suffering or because they are convinced scientifically. I was just interested to know.

In terms of Paul vs. Jesus: good point. I guess despite it being 2000 years since he was on the earth, Jesus and people who called Jesus God (Paul) are extremely influential. All I&#039;ll say is it&#039;s worth a look.

Has it really been through brute force? Admittedly the Catholic Church controlled with an iron fist in most of the middle ages, but I don&#039;t think a lot of the Catholic Church has been honestly Christian, more European paganism with a Jesus gloss. Other than than most of the preaching of the message of Jesus has been peaceful discussion. Any failures (perhaps the way it was preached in Africa? I don&#039;t know the history to be honest) are lamentable but do not mean that Christianity is false.

If it is a 1/3 (and let&#039;s face it most of those people are just nominal, you&#039;re being very kind to say it&#039;s a third) yes it is a small amount. I&#039;d just say that it shows that humans don&#039;t want to know about God.

I would hope that Christians do live better lives, but I apologise if those who&#039;ve claimed to be Christian to you haven&#039;t. I hope you will meet someone who is different.

If you don&#039;t want to look into it that is your decision. I know Esh does at least want to consider these beliefs, and he does so in a good natured way on my blog. So I just wanted to get to know him a little more :)

I&#039;m sorry if I caused any offence, and I hope I&#039;ve given a clear answer to your questions, even if you do not agree.

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<p>Sorry if I offended by using those words. What I meant was so they can be the ones to rule their own lives. Now that doesn&#8217;t mean they&#8217;re complete hedonists, they won&#8217;t just go out and murder. But it means there are certain things they want to do. By saying some, I meant to say it wasn&#8217;t all. Some can&#8217;t believe because of suffering or because they are convinced scientifically. I was just interested to know.</p>
<p>In terms of Paul vs. Jesus: good point. I guess despite it being 2000 years since he was on the earth, Jesus and people who called Jesus God (Paul) are extremely influential. All I&#8217;ll say is it&#8217;s worth a look.</p>
<p>Has it really been through brute force? Admittedly the Catholic Church controlled with an iron fist in most of the middle ages, but I don&#8217;t think a lot of the Catholic Church has been honestly Christian, more European paganism with a Jesus gloss. Other than than most of the preaching of the message of Jesus has been peaceful discussion. Any failures (perhaps the way it was preached in Africa? I don&#8217;t know the history to be honest) are lamentable but do not mean that Christianity is false.</p>
<p>If it is a 1/3 (and let&#8217;s face it most of those people are just nominal, you&#8217;re being very kind to say it&#8217;s a third) yes it is a small amount. I&#8217;d just say that it shows that humans don&#8217;t want to know about God.</p>
<p>I would hope that Christians do live better lives, but I apologise if those who&#8217;ve claimed to be Christian to you haven&#8217;t. I hope you will meet someone who is different.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t want to look into it that is your decision. I know Esh does at least want to consider these beliefs, and he does so in a good natured way on my blog. So I just wanted to get to know him a little more :)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry if I caused any offence, and I hope I&#8217;ve given a clear answer to your questions, even if you do not agree.</p>
<p>Tim</p>
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